Starting point
Make after-meal duties a defined sequence: collect utensils, follow appliance instructions, organise surfaces and return items. Explain products and storage rather than assuming familiarity with the household routine.
when the household routine changes
Restate timings and responsibilities and review whether the current arrangement still fits.
a weekly review
Review completed and deferred duties and their reasons, then agree changes to priorities or time instead of repeating an unsuitable list.
Checklist
Selections are not sent or saved.
Before agreeing
Storage and appliance care should follow product and manufacturer instructions, not unverified general advice.